When searching for "doily" on etsy, I found this gorgeous dress. The whole shop at ArmoursansAnguish is amazing. And look at this fascinator, by LoBoheme! Gorgeous. It's labeled as crochet, but (without my glasses on) it looks like it might include tatting. Here's a pleasantly chunky pearl necklace that would go great with most wedding dresses, even the less traditional ones :) I actually wore a necklace with pearls at our wedding. It was my Nana's, given to her by my Papa decades ago.
Hey, maybe, if you're good, I'll post how to make this veil and fascinator on Tuesday!